Having Trouble Getting Pregnant? Here are 8 Possible Reasons Why

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8 Common Reasons For Trouble Getting Pregnant

If you have been trying to get pregnant but things don’t seem to be happening, this might understandably cause some alarm. However, not conceiving does not necessarily mean that your body is experiencing fertility problems. In fact, there are many reasons why you may have trouble getting pregnant. 

While, generally, infertility has common symptoms such as irregular periods and severe menstrual cramps, there are times when infertility might be caused by an underlying medical condition in women or as male infertility, which rarely has symptoms. 

Here are 8 reasons why you may be experiencing difficulties falling pregnant: 

1. Not Trying During Ovulation Windows

Every woman has a monthly window of opportunity where their body is receptive to getting pregnant. This time is usually marked by ovulation, which is the time of the month when the body’s eggs are preparing to receive sperm. 

During ovulation, the egg is released from the ovary and moves into the fallopian tubes. This usually occurs about 13-15 days after a period although this timing will vary from woman to woman and from cycle to cycle. 

Since sperm can live inside a woman’s body for at least seven days, and the egg lives for about 12-24 hours after it is released from the ovary, you can try to conceive a few days before and after ovulation. However, focusing your efforts on the shorter window of time will ensure that more sperm might make contact with the egg. 

The best time to get pregnant is the first day of ovulation as well as the day before. While this window presents the highest chance of getting pregnant, you don’t have to limit sex to this window. Try to have frequent sex (every 2 to 3 days) throughout the month with at least one of those times being around ovulation.  

2. Not Trying Long Enough

Even with the right planning and proper lifestyle changes, it may be that the woman’s body is not immediately receptive to the sperm. This does not necessarily mean that there is a fertility issue, it simply might suggest that the couple has not been trying long enough. 

Since timing the sperm with the release of the egg can be difficult to match, you may need to try for multiple months to conceive. This is entirely normal as women aren’t always ovulating at the same time, and everybody is different. Approximately 80% of couples conceive after trying for six months, and 90% will get pregnant after trying for 12 months. 

However, there are some timelines to watch for. Women who are over the age of 35 should speak with their doctor if conception has not occurred after six months of trying. Women who are under the age of 35 and have been trying to conceive for over a year should speak to their doctor to discuss fertility options. 

3. Not Ovulating

Ovulation refers to the time when the ovary releases the egg into the fallopian tubes. So if the body is not releasing eggs, there is nothing for the sperm to fertilize. 

If your body is not ovulation, also called anovulation, this means that eggs aren’t being released and there are several reasons why this is occurring. Anovulation might be caused by the underlying condition of PCOS, or polycystic ovarian syndrome

A woman could also be under or overweight, have thyroid dysfunction, be hyperprolactinemic, exercising too much and too intensely, or have primary ovarian insufficiency. If a woman experiences irregular periods, then this could be a sign of anovulation, and it is probably best to consult a physician. 

4. Male Infertility

While women typically bear the physical burden of having kids, men do play a primary role in the insemination process. After all, it takes two to tango, so if you are having trouble conceiving and there seems to be no indication of infertility or irregularities in the woman’s cycle, then there could be an issue with male infertility. 

Male infertility does not show any symptoms, but around 25% of couples found out that their difficulties conceiving were due to male infertility. 

To test for male infertility, a semen analysis is required. This test will measure the health of both semen and sperm. If you suspect that male infertility could be a factor, talk to a doctor but be sure that both partners are tested for infertility. 

5. Age-Related Infertility

When a female is born, her body starts with a couple of million eggs. While these eggs don’t become fertile until puberty, the body does not produce more beyond this initial total. In fact, the amount of eggs that a woman is born with is what she has for her lifetime! And over time, that amount starts to decrease steadily. 

This is usually why age-related infertility exists. Women over the age of 35 will start to experience a decline in fertility because she is losing eggs, and males over the age of 40 also see a decline in fertility rates (even though they continue to produce sperm). 

Once a woman reaches the age of 32, she may start to see a decline in the number of eggs as well as the quality of the eggs. Some studies found that women between the ages of 19 and 26 were 50% more likely to get pregnant, and women between the ages of 35 to 39 had a 29% chance of getting pregnant.

Age is only one factor when it comes to infertility, and women in their 20s and teens can be infertile as well. But age-related infertility might be one of the reasons why it is difficult to conceive. Age also plays a role in the occurrence of genetic problems in the fetus and increases the risk of miscarriage

6. Fallopian Tubes Are Blocked

The fallopian tubes are where the egg travels once it is released from the ovary. The fallopian tubes are where conception occurs. However, if anything prevents the fallopian tube from functioning properly, the egg and sperm won’t be able to meet. 

Fallopian tube blockages can occur because of pelvic inflammatory disease (PID; a sexually transmitted disease [STD]), a history of pelvic diseases or infections (which might not be sexually transmitted), history or current STD infections, history of uterine infections caused by a miscarriage or abortion, history of abdominal surgery, previous ectopic pregnancy, endometriosis, prior surgery involving the fallopian tubes, or a history of a ruptured surgery. 

While not common, blocked fallopian tubes may present symptoms like infertility, irregular menstrual cycle, anovulation, lower abdominal pain (caused by a specific kind of a blocked fallopian tube), or unusual vaginal discharge. Other symptoms include pain during intercourse, general pelvic pain, fever and nausea (in acute cases), and severe lower abdominal pain. 

7. Endometriosis

While a potential cause of other fertility-related problems, endometriosis may be the primary reason for infertility. Endometriosis is a condition where the endometrium tissue, which is the tissue that lines the uterus, starts to grow in places outside of the uterus. 

About half of women who have endometriosis will have issues getting pregnant. Symptoms will present as painful periods and pelvic pain outside of menstruation. Some women will not know that they have endometriosis until they try to get pregnant and, to make matters worse, it is frequently misdiagnosed. 

8. Underlying Medical Conditions or Unexplained Infertility

Underlying medical problems, such as a thyroid imbalance, undiagnosed diabetes, depression, autoimmune diseases, lupus, STDs, and more can disrupt the normal balance of egg production and fertilization. 

If you are trying to get pregnant or are thinking about it, it’s best to talk with your doctor to ask them questions. If you have a medical condition but weren’t aware that it could cause complications with fertility, talking to your doctor sooner rather than later can help you to avoid some stress. 

If you don’t have a medical condition but are still trying to get pregnant and not succeeding, there could be some other unknown reasons why. Doctors refer to this type of infertility as unexplained or rather undiscovered or unable to be diagnosed. The good news is that you can still receive treatment for unexplained infertility. 

Why am I not getting pregnant?

If you or a loved one is trying to get pregnant but it just isn’t happening, you must speak with your doctor so that you can try to identify what is causing the trouble. 

Since there are a number of causes for infertility and lack of conception, your doctor will be able to work with you to identify and test. 

Here at Inositol, we are here for you. We understand that going through something like this is difficult, but you won’t know what is going on until you test. Don’t wait, and consult your doctor to discuss potential infertility tests and treatment


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